Make a date!
In December, treat yourself. Make a date with someone special. Not a spouse or close friend you see regularly. With someone you haven't seen in awhile and you've been thinking about them. It may take a little effort.
Here's an example. A couple weeks ago I was thinking about a former client, who turned into my Realtor and then my friend. I texted her to have lunch with me in December. She was thrilled and I was glad she accepted. We caught up for 2 1/2 hours today and it was wonderful not only to chat but share so much that the date has made a great memory.
Here's something else I do in December. My mother and I would take an entire day to play in downtown Birmingham, Michigan. Start with coffee. Shop a little. Into another cafe for a cup of soup. Shop some more. Finally a late lunch at one of their famous restaurants. With the trunk of the car loaded, we chatted and giggled and ate our way through the day.
I plan to do that next week with her. She's no longer living, but I'm taking her out for the day as I did when she was alive and vibrant and my best friend. I will enjoy the day with her.
If that doesn't suit you, get out of that house and take yourself on a date. Not for running errands. Be with your best friend enjoy your time with you. Trust me - it's wonnnnderful!
See you next week, Toots.
We'll be leaving at 10 a.m, Mom. I love you.
